«[A] beautiful, rich and intricately woven web of sometimes startling insights, and poses sharp, often uncomfortable questions that force the reader to rethink so-called "normal" assumptions.'-- Urvashi Bhutalia, Indian feminist writer, publisher, and activist»

«'A lyrical intelligence animates this highly insightful account … by one of the most original psychoanalysts of her generation.' -- Sudhir Kakar, Indian psychoanalyst, novelist, and author»